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The most important way of looksmaxing that no one talks about.


If you want to look good, there's something really important you shouldn't forget about. I've talked about it before, and I'm going to keep telling you how crucial it is. This thing can make you much more attractive, maybe even twice or three times as much. I had a chat recently with a really good-looking woman, and that showed me how powerful this one thing is...

When I was in Eastern Europe, I got to talk to some really beautiful women, including a supermodel. Talking to her was really captivating. There was something about her that just seemed to have a special kind of hold on me. Every time she smiled, looked at me, or laughed, I felt something different. She had a nearly perfect face, and I thought it was all because of her genes.

But one day, I found some old photos of her from high school on her Facebook. Even though she still had a great face and striking blue eyes, she didn't look as attractive. It's hard to explain, but even though she was younger, she wasn't as good-looking.

At first, I thought it might be because of her clothes and makeup. But after looking more closely, I realized that wasn't the main reason. Her smile and the way she looked at things were different.

The next time we met, I brought up those old photos in a playful way.

"I didn't know you went through an awkward phase," I teased.

She told me that she always thought she was pretty, but she didn't believe she was good-looking enough to be a model. Then, one day, she decided to try modeling and spent a lot of time practicing her smile and different looks. Her hard work paid off, and she knew it. After she finished high school, she went to Milan, Italy, and everything got even better.

The Most Important Step for All Guys

Why does a woman with almost perfect looks have to spend so much time to become really attractive, while guys don't seem to have to work as hard? The truth is, if we want to be attractive, we have to put in the effort too.

She's not the only woman who spends time in front of the mirror, working on that kind of charm that makes your heart beat faster. I'm sure that every really attractive woman you've met has done the same thing.

There are 43 muscles in our face. If you learn how to use these muscles well, you can become more attractive to women. You can learn how to smile in the right way, look into a woman's eyes in a way that means something, or give a little smile that makes her interested. These are just some of the things you need to learn.

If a supermodel had to practice this stuff even before becoming a regular model, then it's something that any guy should take seriously. Definitely.

Becoming More Attractive Right Away

How Can I Get Better?

Here's what you should do: promise yourself right now that you'll spend time in front of a mirror almost every day for the next year.

Look at yourself in the mirror and pretend you're talking to someone, practice saying things to start a conversation, and work on the different expressions you'll use when you meet a woman.

To understand what women like, watch what male models do, or even better, look at popular actors. Watch lots of movies and TV shows with these good-looking guys. I've made a big list of great movies and shows for you to watch so you can study these men.

Also, make sure to get my book, "The 9 Laws of Attractive Body Language." Once you understand how body language works, it's time to put in the effort.

How to looksmax?


The easiest way is to use mirrors, which you can find all over your home. You can practice when you're getting ready in the morning or before you go to bed. I've seen good results when I practice before a date.

Put a mirror in front of your shower so you can see your face while you shower. While you're having a calm moment, work on your body language. It's a good way to spend your time.

Facetime and Video

Another way to practice looksmaxing is to use video calls or record videos.

Video calls are helpful because you can see how you interact with women in real-time. There's nothing like using a well-practiced smile and seeing how happy it makes a woman. Even if you don't do video calls with women, I really suggest doing it for your own growth. Look at yourself on the screen, try different things, and see how she reacts. It's the best practice and I talk about it a lot in my book about online dating. Video calls are also great for setting up dates with women you meet online.

Or you can record videos of yourself practicing alone or talking to a woman. I'm sure you have some not-so-great habits when you talk that you don't even know about. This is a good way to find those habits and get rid of them.

Take Action

This is even more important for guys because women care more about how we use our bodies than how our bones are shaped. Spend time in front of the mirror, and you'll see yourself becoming more attractive. It's something you have to do on your own, but it's really worth it. I want to say it one more time: if you're not willing to put in the work in front of the mirror, then you're not really serious about looking good.

"It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows." - Epictetus

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